working on it!

(Source: pudgeball)

the-happy-and-healthy-me:

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thin-in-a-healthy-way:

I HATE reblogs like this!! Why? Because every guy has a personal preference and I think this just makes men look like shallow fuckwits, which their not. Who the hell has the right to blanket all men and say that they don’t like bigger girls!

Every BF I have ever had I’ve met at a higher weight, because I was self confident and happy!! Almost every guy I have ever spoken to says the self confidence is the sexiest thing on a woman.

This reblog is the type of one that makes girls think they have to be thin to get a bf which is just stupid! Considering the national average is over a size 14 for Australia and almost every friend I have is attached, just shows how inaccurate this reblog actually fucking is.

*end rant*

^ Everything Missi said. I’ve reblogged and commented on this kind of thing before, but honestly, it infuriates me, so here we are again.

You know what? This isn’t how men (generally speaking) actually think. This is how magazines and other media tell women - and worse, girls - that all men think. You know why? Because media is funded by sponsors and advertisers, and a HUGE portion of those advertisers make their money by telling women they’re not “right” the way they are, and selling them the things that will supposedly make them “right”.

Before you assume a guy doesn’t like you because of your size/weight/fat earlobes, stop and consider the fact that maybe he does like you. Maybe he’s shy. Maybe he thinks that because you don’t show an interest (because you think you’re too fat to get a guy) in him that he can’t get YOU.

Life is not simple. People are sure as hell not simple, either.

Don’t degrade him, yourself, or ANYONE because of some media-fuelled generalisation.

^Yes.

Whoever made this picture really needs to wake up to themselves. 

Completely agree. If any man is put off you because of your size, he’s not worth being with anyway.

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The only guy I was ‘with’ that didn’t like my weight and ‘flaws’ in my body turned out to be the most immature and shallow men I dated. All he cared and wanted was sex, and even now when I speak to him, he mentions sex. Last but not least he fucked around with my emotions and never knew what he wanted.

But now, the guy I’m sort of dating, he’s got a fucking FANTASTIC body, breakdances, works out in the gym often and is also one handsome fucker - and why is he interested in me and likes me so much? Because I’m happy, confident (at times!), hilaaarious, and he claims that I’m beautiful buahaha!

If people aren’t capable of falling in love with you as a whole person, then they are a complete waste of time.

:)